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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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I'm sorry the meds didn't work @outlander but hope you still can get the rest you need. 💕

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@outlander Hey outlander yes in fact I went for a bush walk yesterday with one of my support workers. I have a couple which is good as it brings varity into the situation. They get me out into the community and help me around the house as well. I want to get fitter so they take me for massive bush walks which nearly **** me but are fun too. @Lee82

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Wow that's an early walk....lol definitely better walking with someone than alone @Bunniekins walking is something I really need to start doing more of.
no haven't managed to get any sleep and don't think I will be sleeping anytime soon either.

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@Former-Member A big good morning to you hunny for when you wake up. Was too tired yesterday to talk but hopefully we can catch up later. If not have a wonderful day. Love peaxxx

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Good night to you both im going to try for abit of sleep, was good chatting to you both
@Bunniekins @Lee82 😴😘🌻💌

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Sweet dreams my friend. @outlander

I will check in with you tomorrow

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@Lee82 yes it is early but you would be surprised at how many people are out and about early due to co-vid 19. Yesterday when I went by myself at around 4.30 (a bit later than I would walking with neighbour0 there were 5 different people either walking, running or riding bikes. I think during the day where I live it is so busy people want to avoid it as much as possible. Wouldnt it be great if all us night owls could meet up and go for a midnight walk 😄 there would be quite alot of us lol.

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@outlander Night outlander I hope you get some sleep :Dxxx

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Hell yea that would be a great walk. 😆

Very interesting conversations would be happening.
Im usually falling asleep at that time so wouldn't know whats happening out in the world...lol

@Bunniekins

is this a daily ritual for you?

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@Lee82 I generally walk with her 4 times a week sometimes more and then also with my support workers which is great as it adds variety. We all walk and talk about lots of things. My neighbour is a shocker though I think once you hit your 80s you just dont care any more about what people think about you lol. She is so fit. I was talking with a budding psychologist and he said that walking was vital to having a healthy mind so I am taking him for his word and will keep walking :).

Do you exercise?

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