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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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In response to: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor23 Dec 2020, 8:50 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

I am sure he is fine when others are around, it is just when it is the two of you. That must still be hard for you @outlander , especially when things are not your fault but you still get the blame for them.

It must be hard to take your own food to places hun, especially when it is a family get to together. I can understand you not wanting to go out to dinner, just too hard and stressful for you.

We are going to my H's sister house for lunch on xmas day. She has some children the same age as ours so they kids really like it, they get on well together. We go away boxing day in the morning so will probably be getting ready for that xmas night.