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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember22 Dec 2020, 10:43 pm AEDT

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Hi @outlander Just getting ready for bed here. 💞🤗

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Dec 2020, 11:05 pm AEDT

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Goodnight @Former-Member sleep well

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Unknown userMember22 Dec 2020, 11:06 pm AEDT

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Good night @outlander You too. 😴💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Dec 2020, 11:15 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Former-Member probably a long way off sleep yet though

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 Dec 2020, 9:27 am AEDT

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Good morning my sweet sis @outlander

I hope you got some sleep last night hun.

Please look after yourself, you are important to me and lots here.

Lots of love and hugs 💜💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 Dec 2020, 7:52 pm AEDT

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Hey hun @outlander

How are you going tonight sis?

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Dec 2020, 8:17 pm AEDT

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Im just hanging around @Snowie quite tired. Havent caught up on the things i need to so will be a 6am start so i dont fall to far behind. Need to finish most of it by 1030/11 before starting other stuff. Looking like a long day.
Pops being pop as usual, taking everything out on me then wonders why i get cranky. Ive cleaned the house today including jed sheet changes. Just have to clean my room up tonight oe tomorrow and the spare room for mums partners kid wholl be staying with us as well.
New rules here mean not much of an xmas as well so ita abit rougher here. Trying to decorate the house up to make it nice too

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Dec 2020, 8:17 pm AEDT

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How are you going

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SnowieSenior Contributor23 Dec 2020, 8:26 pm AEDT

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Sounds like you have been busy today hun and tomorrow will be the same @outlander I hope you are able to stop, relax and enjoy christmas day at least hun.

Your pop sounds like he is being hurtful, you shouldn't have to deal with that but I know how hard it is for you to walk away. You do such a good job looking after and caring for him sweetie.

I have been thinking of you in NSW hun, hoping you can at least still spend it with your family.

I am ok, just trying to get through this time as best as possible. Will keep going for the sake of the kids.

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Dec 2020, 8:39 pm AEDT

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Hes fine when other people are around but when its us its like he forgers the good day he has and goes back to blaming me for having a restricted license or the phone he smashed or his car that has just run out of fuel. @Snowie im just tired of it. I think i will be seeing about abit more if a break after this holiday that wont be a holiday.

I can still spend it with family just plans changed which is ok. I sort of wished it was even more limited. Ita embarrassing and hard having to have to take my own meals places now. Didnt go out for dinner because theres nothing safe except a salad and i said its not worth going out for a simple salad at a nice restaurant so that dampened things abit.
Yeah im hearing you, this time of yr can be really hard. I just want the next few weeks to go quickly and get it over with. Do u have any nice dinner plans or anything? @Snowie

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