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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Sweet @outlander 💖 ... how's your day been?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Its been busy @Emelia8 im quite tired. I really hoped to catch up on things today but my 2 aims still didnt get done.
Not feeling overly well again,seems like an allergic reaction again to who knows what and my anxiety is super high. Still cooking pops dinner, Have to do present deliveries yet to mums house when little ones asleep so prob around 1030 and give the house a tidy up if i can manage it before another early start and late night tomorrow

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Sorry that was a blurt out wasnt it 😬😞

How are you?

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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No @outlander , I dont see it as a blurt out at all. Just being honest and saying it as it is. 😔💓

Sorry you didnt get as much done today as what you had hoped. But it sounds like you have it all in hand.

Oh dear .. not good with more allergic reactions .. to, who knows what. 😳 This seems to be becoming more frequent Li'l One, despite your efforts to avoid everything they tell you to. I think I mentioned to you some time back, that some allergic reactions become worse after each exposure to the allergen. Really hope this is not what is happening here. Worth talking to your Dr about it though.

Sounds like its going to be an unavoidably late night again today, and an early start tomorrow. Not ideal when you are already very tired. Hope, when you do get to bed, that you sleep soundly.

Emelia 🍒🎄

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Take care @outlander and I hope you get some sleep tonight.

❤️💚❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Eve7 🌷💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks for listening @Emelia8 looks like i do t have to be out to late now, mum took the kids light hunting so i could scoot out now so thats done and took pop to look at a few lights on the way home as well.

Yeah i dont kniw whats causing them but its a reaction of some kind cause its causes coughing and really bad itchy skin and wheezing. Maybe something had peanuts or wheat in it and wasnt careful enough at lunch today. The bit of dairy (half a small freddo frog) caused a huge stomach upset too but its settling a little now.
Just watching elf and having a tea before having a shower. Yeah the allergens can become worse. I dont really react to peanuts or not that ive noticed surprisingly but the wheat is a problem i just disnt realise that was the issue even after dairys eliminated. Cant have rice flour either but am going to allergenist i think next yr depending how many kidneys i need to sell to afford it after neuroaurgeon 🤦‍♀️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Care to join me/us for a cuppa? @Eve7 @Anastasia @Emelia8 @Sans911 @Snowie @Faith-and-Hope @Zoe7

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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@outlander 😔💖

Im watching Carols. But very tired and can barely keep eyes open. An early night for me I think.

Em 🌷

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander I’d love to join you then I’m off to bed.

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