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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@Sans911 @Snowie @Emelia8 soeey cant think

I feel like im going to have a mental breakdown and i dnt know what to do

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Don't be sorry sweet lil Sis @outlander. Is there any way we can help? I'm here with you.

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Hey honey, here for you

🤗🤗💜🤗🤗

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I dont know what to do 😞
Everything is just to overwhelming. I cant keep up with expectations or anything and it feels like everything is closing in on me @Eve7 @Sans911

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Hey @outlander .. whats going on sweetheart? Sitting alongside you Li'l One ... ready to listen and wanting to help. 💓😔

@Sans911 @Eve7 🌻

Emelia 🌷

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Here and listening hun @outlander 💜

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I am sorry it’s too overwhelming @outlander

Can you tell your family you need space? Do some self care in your room with music and close the door.

If you need Please call someone or email

@Former-Member

Love and hugs sweetie

💜🤗💜

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It just seems like i have to do everything and with the holidays its even harder.
Work doesnt stop for parents so i have to take sisters to work/pickup, to sports, do the horses, work occassionally at events, still catch up on some other things because i havent had a chance to do them yet, look after pop. Im the only one teaching sister to drive and when i just dont feel like she gets the shites because i wont and no one
else will. I always get 'whatever' or i was going to put petrol in but whatever or uh huh.i pay for her driving lessons as well as much as i can. I just dont understand why people cant understand im human too. I cant get a break because then im lazy or all i get it attitutde. Seems like im 24 going on 100. I have nothing left in me.
I cant deal with my allergies either, eveeything is to expensive or has to be made from scatch. I hate it. Its disgusting and its ruining what little appetitie i have. Cant just duck up the shop to get something. My grocery bill has almost trippled now.
Mums partners kid is coming up very soon which means i will have to babysit her as well because no one else will plus will be staying a few nights at ny house
I just cant do it

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I still haven't got through xmas day with a dinner party yet or an upcoming holiday which wont be a holiday because ill still be working since i have to go with the tribe including pop

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I don't have anything to comfort you or make things better @outlander. If it was me I might be might have walked away a long time ago. Because you are being abused. It's wrong on so many levels. And I totally understand that you can't cop a break. And it gets so overwhelming. I'm so sorry hun. I truly am.
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