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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sounds like a good night @Anastasia I am glad you enjoyed yourself.

It is nice to have those times out and not think about everything that is happening for us. I hope it was a night off for your brain too.

If I was there with you I would gladly cook you bacon and eggs. All I can do is this however....😊😊

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That looks so good @Snowie

Thank you!!!

Yes brain switched off was sooooo good. In fact I didn't check my phone at the restaurant once now that I think about it. My bf stayed here so I knew my boys were fine. Very blessed. He bought them Macca's for dinner which I never do so they will no doubt want me to go out again haha.

My colleagues said I looked amazing, 10 years younger last night, I guess the difference between making an effort and not! 🤔

Bf just said he wants to take the boat out as he repaired the trailer and needs to realign the boat, which has to be done after launching it arghhh last thing I feel like doing being seedy. He needs my help so I better get some food in the hope it helps 🤞

What do you have planned for today?

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So glad you had a good night. Sometimes it is nice just to get out of our heads!

Take those compliments hun @Eve7 😊😊

Not a lot planned for today, just enjoying the quiet before the rest of the house wakes up. H, D and S still all asleep so enjoying the morning sun with the dog!

I hope your day goes well hun.

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So wonderful to hear you had such a good time last night @Anastasia ... a rare chance to let your hair down and not worry about home for a while. 👍💖😊🍷 Ha ha ... feeling a little seedy and out on the boat doesnt sound like the best combination imaginable ... hopefully all okay. Perhaps @Snowie offered bacon and eggs will help?

Hi @outlander ... thanks for your company last night ... and yours too @Eve7 ... hope your tummy upset has calmed.

Sending warm wishes for a good day to @Sans911 as well.

Emelia 🌺

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Thanks @Emelia8 @Anastasia I lost a couple of kgs during the night but feeling okish now.

I hope no one else gets this dreaded lurgy!!!

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@Eve7 @Emelia8 @Snowie @Anastasia @Sans911

💕💜❤

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@outlander

💚❤️💚

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Goodnight everyone @Eve7 @Emelia8 @Anastasia @Sans911 @Snowie and every one too

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Good night @outlander sweet dreams hun

❤️💚❤️

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Good morning my sweet @outlander

I know you have a busy day today, hoping it all goes ok hun.

💞💞

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