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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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BowSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 2:07 pm AEDT

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Sorry your having a difficult time @outlander anything I can do? Just sitting around

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 2:29 pm AEDT

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Hugs @outlander

💙🤗💜🤗💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 2:33 pm AEDT

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i dont know @Bow my anxiety is so high atm

@Eve7

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BowSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 3:04 pm AEDT

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Can I make a tea? Or perhaps if it’s a scorcher like it is here an iced tea? @outlander

i treated myself to a bubble tea this morning. Peach green tea with popping pearls 🙂

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BlueBaySenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 3:46 pm AEDT

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i hope your anxiety can reduce a little @outlander

is there something nice you can do for yourself even if it's just for a few minutes

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 4:30 pm AEDT

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Ive got an orange juice atm @Bow i have a headache again its still 42 degrees here.
Your bubble tea sounds nice, im not a fan of those though. I tried 2 flavours but i dont really like iced teas much

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 4:31 pm AEDT

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No not really @BlueBay i have babysitting till 1030 tonight. Ive had them since 7am this morning and probably for a few hrs tomorrow too so they can be in the aircon for a while since its suppose to be hot again tomorrow

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 4:40 pm AEDT

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I’ve been in the pool @outlander . I wish you could join me on the bottom with a snorkel

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 4:42 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Eve7 im considering getting a small pool so me and the kids can sit in it when its hot.
We are watching arther Christmas atm and i gave the little one some cookies to decorate so she should be entertained for half hr.

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 4:45 pm AEDT

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Good idea @outlander then you can sit in it on a hot day. S1 just went to the shops on the jet ski to get ice creams for his kids🌸

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