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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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MaggieSenior Contributor26 Nov 2020, 10:05 pm AEDT

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Thanks @outlander , I think of you often sweetheart. Take care. ❣️❣️❣️❣️

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 Nov 2020, 10:06 pm AEDT

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@Maggie 💙💜💚

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SnowieSenior Contributor27 Nov 2020, 9:44 am AEDT

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@outlander hoping today is a good day for you.

Lots of love sis 💛💛

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 7:15 am AEDT

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Just an update from me...my burnout is getting worse, it's affecting me in real life and am not coping with things I used to cope with, like the noise my neighbour makes, etc. My psychologist has recommended 3 months away from the forums, but I would miss everyone too much, so am trialling 3 weeks of being just on my thread only, to see if I can refrain from supporting people, but still remain here. I see my psychologist again on the 11th December, so will update you all after I see what she says about this option.

It's really awful, as I care about all of you lots, but can't find anything to give - I'm sorry.

Sending you all ...I think about you all every day, and miss you. Please take care...I know you are all struggling with awful things 😞

@outlander @Snowie @Eve7 @Former-Member @Lee82

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Lee82Senior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 8:28 am AEDT

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I'm so sorry to hear you Are still feeling burnout babe. I understand how much you don't want to give up being here as I feel the same way. This forum is like my life line. I would be lost without all of you by my side.
I truly hope things get better for you beautiful

always in my heart and thoughts. 💗

@NatureLover

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 9:08 am AEDT

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Thank you so much, @Lee82

I don't want people to think I don't care.

Thank you for understanding. And for your kind wishes 🙂 Sending

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 9:54 am AEDT

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@outlander sending you lots of love sweetheart

💕💕

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MaggieSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 9:55 am AEDT

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@outlander @Snowie 💙💙💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 10:07 am AEDT

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@Maggie 💕

How are you going today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Nov 2020, 1:59 pm AEDT

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My health anxiety is through the roof 😥

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