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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I think so @outlander I haven’t had a good day and sh got the better of me but I haven’t said anything about it to anyone.

I’m supposed to go away with friends tomorrow.

How are you tonight?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 @Anastasia
Hope you dont mind me responding here, little tricky keeping up on this phone. Hoping to have my computer up ans running properly by Wednesday 🤞🤞

Im at home now from the time away. Wasnt to exciting and wasnt really a break. Kind of think i shoupdve just went on my own instesd of taking a sister with me but to late now i guess. Just watching somw tv with a tea now.
How are you both?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Oh dear @Eve7 do you need medical attention?
I hope you can still go away with friends. Might be nice to get away for abit?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry to hear that @outlander

I can relate tho. Would have never gone anywhere with my sibling. My boys wouldn't either I don't think. Shame. Glad you made it tho. Guess you ticked the box for your mum tho.hun. Relationships they are never easy. Big hugs to you xxx

I'm ok in bed now don't think I'll last much longer pretty pooped. Had a nice weekend. Spent some time into he water today, glorious day. Feeling the effects of a little too.much sun tho now.

@Lee82

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Oh dear @Eve7

Are you ok? I so wish I could wrap you up and have you here with me.

Sorry I hope you don't mind me asking but I saw outlanders comment checking on you.

@outlander 💞

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jem80Senior Contributor

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@outlander

Back to the gym tomorrow.
zoom meeting in the evening.

catch up on some studies.

a relaxing day ahead

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Sounda nice @jem80
Ill be doing sime study review too. Its suppose to be 35 here tomorrow so its going to be to hot to do much outside.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im glad your weekend was nice @Anastasia i got quite sunburnt too inclhding including my eyes. I was barely outside to much so im not sure how that happened 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’m ok @outlander I hope I can still go away as I think it will be good to do something”Normal” and be with my friends. It will be a big day if it does happen.

How’s everything for you now you’re home again?

Thanks for your kind words @Anastasia I hope you sleep well tonight and that your headache has gone.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I hope so too @Eve7
Its ok. Same old same old really. I was only gone for a day though
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