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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 7:03 pm AEDT

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That sounds lovely @jem80
Im in the middle of recovering files since my broken computer is now working for some reason so im backing everything up onto a harddrive incase it happens again

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 7:04 pm AEDT

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Thanks hun @outlander

Words just hurt more then people realise sometimes.

How was your weekend away?

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 7:10 pm AEDT

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Yeah i understand that @Snowie
It was ok i guess. Nothing exciting or anything. Have been dealing with pop since i got home.
My computer is working atm so im backing up all my files onto my hardrive in case it crashes again. Might look into studies next year depending how i feel. Im already up for one surgery and will discuss next steps for gyno in 2 weeks time. Might be another big yr agaib

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 7:38 pm AEDT

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Sounds like you have a few things on the go already hun @outlander

I hope there is only one surgery for you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 7:51 pm AEDT

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I wont know till i speak to them. I have a dental surgery again to arrange to try and correct something but i cabt till my private inssurance kicks in cause im not going back to tht surgeon i seen previously.

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 8:01 pm AEDT

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Hopefully you don't have to wait too long to have the surgery @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 8:29 pm AEDT

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How are you going @Snowie @Emelia8 ?

@jem80 what are you up to tomorrow

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 8:42 pm AEDT

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I'm ok hun. Just taken some meds @outlander to try and help.

Hopefully I will be asleep soon and can forget about today.

Goodnight hun 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 8:47 pm AEDT

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Hoping you can get some sleep and tomorrow is better @Snowie 💛

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 9:36 pm AEDT

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@Eve7 do you get to go home tomorrow?

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