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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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jem80Senior Contributor15 Nov 2020, 10:35 pm AEDT

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@outlander

Stay cool. I notice the sun has a bit of a sting in it so it tends to be easy to get sunburnt. I have stayed covered up when going out to avoid getting burnt.

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 Nov 2020, 9:46 am AEDT

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Morning @jem80 @outlander @Eve7 @Anastasia @NatureLover and anyone else around.

Hoping you day goes well

💜💜

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor16 Nov 2020, 10:20 am AEDT

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Hi @Snowie

Ditto for you my friend 💞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 7:49 am AEDT

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@outlander how is your hip?

So much going on for you...surgery planned, computer broken, and studies maybe next year?

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 4:42 pm AEDT

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Ive managed to get my computer up and running again @NatureLover
Struggling alot today. Not sure about studies anymore i think it might be to much.

Hips not much better but i see a new chiro on Thursday who might help

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 4:44 pm AEDT

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@Snowie @Eve7 @Emelia8 @Sans911 @Anastasia @Former-Member @Appleblossom @Maggie 💚💜💕🧡💛

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SnowieSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 4:47 pm AEDT

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Sorry to hear you are struggling @outlander

Have you done much today?

I hope the new chiro can help

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 5:44 pm AEDT

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I havent really done much @Snowie pain is tiring, between my hip neck jaw headaches and anpther issue its really bothersome and theres tensions around online and offline that are tricky.
Pain and neurologist specialist is willing to see me but its 350 (with 150 rebate) but i think it might be worth it since its actually a 2 hr or more appt to assess diagnose and put in a treatment plan plus it gets reviewed by 2 or 3 staff pain specialist not just one person.

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Unknown userMember17 Nov 2020, 5:51 pm AEDT

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Hello @outlander , just popping in to say hi and I hope you're well.

I'll be around on the forums if you want to chat, hope I'm not intruding here, sorry if so.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor17 Nov 2020, 5:54 pm AEDT

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Hello @outlander

Thank you for always including me xxx

I'm sorry the pain is as such. The specialist sounds like a good idea. It's a lot of money but you are worth it hun xxx

Hello gorgeous @NatureLover always including me too. Thank you x

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