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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 5:32 pm AEDT

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Thats no good hun, hopefully things settle for you soon hun @outlander IT is always hard when we have to go through our background, especially when it is triggering. Lots of hugs hun.

D's optometrist went fine. My sessions went ok. Had to talk to H about a few things and it just blew up. Now I am stressed, anxious and wishing I wasn't here. I am just too much hard work.

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 5:35 pm AEDT

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Oh dear @Snowie doesnt sound very good. Are you safe?
Your not to much work for me, i want to be here for you 💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 5:52 pm AEDT

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@outlander

Just hard when it feels like my MI is having a negative effect on H and kids. I tried to be honest with him but it just backfired. i just dont see how it can work out good.

Sorry, I should be supporting you hun

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Unknown userMember26 Oct 2020, 6:02 pm AEDT

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👋💖🌷☕️ @Snowie @outlander @Fluttershy1

Tried a nap. Was too scared to sleep last night.
Sorry chat didn't go well with h Snowie.
And sorry to hear it was triggering at massage place, Outlander.

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 6:12 pm AEDT

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Sorry to hear you didn't sleep last night @Former-Member Hoping the nap helped a bit.

Hopefully you get some sleep tonight hun

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JynxModerator26 Oct 2020, 6:24 pm AEDT

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Hey all, just popping in to give some support, sounds like there's been some real tough days for folks recently.

@Snowie I also just want to check in with you around your safety, especially with the thought of wishing you weren't here. That's a real hard one to sit with, but know that we are all really glad you're here with us

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 6:27 pm AEDT

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Your always supporting me @Snowie we are here to support each other. Its hard when things backfire. Do you think it might help in the long term once H settles ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 6:28 pm AEDT

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Its ok @Former-Member she didnt know, she was nice though and good at her job so shes forgiven. Hope you can rest today

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Unknown userMember26 Oct 2020, 6:33 pm AEDT

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Sitting with you both @Snowie @outlander

Not much to say, but I have a cuppa for you.

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 6:42 pm AEDT

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A cuppa sounds great @Former-Member

I don't know @Jynx

@outlander I hope so. He just doesn't understand me sometimes and then I feel bad for being the way I am. If I wasn't like this then he wouldn't get so upset and peeved off at me.I just can't deal with it in a good way.

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