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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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JynxModerator

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That's really hard @Snowie , to be trying to communicate your thoughts and feelings and feel like you're not being understood. In my experience when loved ones become frustrated or upset with us, it's because of how much they love us and wish that things were better for us. It doesn't mean that you are the problem, it just shows how much MH impacts everyone involved.

I know you're good at looking after yourself, so I'm sure you'll be able to get through this day - but of course please reach out if it is starting to become really overwhelming. Here with you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Jynx

Hoping time apart tonight will help. Have some coping strategies in place and doing some mindfulness.

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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Hey @Former-Member,

how was your day?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thats really tough @Snowie its hard having mh and tricky for other who dont suffer from it to understand to. I hope things will settle soon 💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thanks @outlander 💕💕I feel like I have to choose between my mh and my family. I know things will ease but everything feels so hard, tiring and complicated. Just one of those days that goes into the too hard basket. I really don't want to deal with this s**t. Some self care might be needed tonight.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I understand @Snowie life is so bloody hard sometimes.
Do you have any self care things you could do tonight till bed time?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Sending love back dear @outlander 💞💞

Also

@Snowie @Fluttershy1 @Former-Member @Eve7 and everyone else here xxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thank you for the tea too @Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hi lovley @Anastasia hows your day been

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thanks @outlander for understanding. Taken my meds early tonight so hoping I will be asleep soon. Have been doing some self care to help me.

Thanks for being here for me, you really are one of a kind 💕💕

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