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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 6:42 am AEDT

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@Former-Member - life in general

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 11:53 am AEDT

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Good morning @outlander @Former-Member @Emelia8 @Fluttershy1 and anyone else around.

Hope your Monday is going ok. It is cold and windy here, perfect day to stay inside ❄☃

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Unknown userMember26 Oct 2020, 1:28 pm AEDT

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Good afternoon @Snowie @outlander and everyone. 👋💖☕️ Take care and have a good day.
I can't imagine it being cold, Snowie. I have the air con on here.
Just doing chores.

I wish there was an easy answer @Fluttershy1 I know how tough it can be.
What I think helps me the most is, exercise, eating healthy, lots of filtered water and deep breathing.
Takes discipline to do those things, but it's worth it. Mind you, I have a long way to go myself. A day at a time. I'm far from being well, but determined to get there. Take care.

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 1:30 pm AEDT

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hi hi @Former-Member @outlander @Emelia8, how are we all today?

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 3:56 pm AEDT

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Very cold here @Former-Member

Would much rather warmer weather!

Besides chores how is your day going?

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 4:00 pm AEDT

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@Snowie @Former-Member @Fluttershy1 @Eve7 @Anastasia @Sans911 @Emelia8 @WIP sending love to you all

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 4:10 pm AEDT

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Hi hun @outlander how are you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 4:25 pm AEDT

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Strugging abit but sick of saying that @Snowie
Massage was good but also very triggerring because of some things we talked about

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 4:27 pm AEDT

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its ok to say that @outlander

glad your massage helped but sorry to hear it was triggering.

Is there anything i can help you with?

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 4:41 pm AEDT

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There was an abuse topic come up (just talking about news) and also the dog incident of mine as well @Snowie think just has to settle. And she needed my background health details and was just overwhelming goi n through it all

How are you? how was your sessions and Ds optometrist?

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