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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember25 Oct 2020, 9:44 pm AEDT

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That's nice of you. You are such a kind sister.
@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 9:50 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Former-Member shes been asking for a while now. Ive spent 5 hrs doing it over the weekend ans can feel it in my elbow now so having a rest from it for the rest of tonight.

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Unknown userMember25 Oct 2020, 10:09 pm AEDT

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It's relaxing crocheting and so is knitting. Haven't done either for ages. Too hot here for blankets etc. Air con on today. Summer is on its way. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 10:20 pm AEDT

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Chilly hrre ans all through the week with more rain expected so good time to crochet esp with having to be careful from health ailments atm

Maybe youll get back into it soon @Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 10:24 pm AEDT

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Hello @Former-Member

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Unknown userMember25 Oct 2020, 11:49 pm AEDT

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Fell asleep briefly. Early for me.
Have you been sleeping ok lately. Sorry you've not been feeling well. @outlander

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor25 Oct 2020, 11:56 pm AEDT

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Hi hi @Former-Member @outlander , how are you?

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Unknown userMember25 Oct 2020, 11:58 pm AEDT

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Hi @Fluttershy1 Feeling quite stressed about everything, but am going to try to sleep again. How was your day?

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor26 Oct 2020, 12:09 am AEDT

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Horrible @Former-Member, I wish it was easier

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Unknown userMember26 Oct 2020, 1:15 am AEDT

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Sorry to hear that @Fluttershy1 I wish things were easier too. Did something in particular happen, or life in general?

Sorry if I don't answer straight away. but will answer when i can. 🌷

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