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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember

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No plans @outlander Never know how I'll be feeling. What about you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Kid pickup and drop off home from school tomorow and a massage @Former-Member other then that prob just some cleaning up depending on how im feeling

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member no need to apologise hun, nothing you did wrong.

@outlander Got a busy day tomorrow. Got psych and pdoc appointments (via Zoom) and then D got optometrist appointment after school. Will be mentally exhausted by the end of the day.

Hope your massage goes good hun. I guess no news is good news sis.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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That is a very busy day @Snowie hope the sessions help though.
Not really re-news, the drs clinic doesnt generally ring unless its urgent. Ive had tests before and needed antibiotics but i ended up making an appt after a few days of not hearing from them to find out. They arent on top of things very well there. If i dont hear back by tuesday arvo ill make an appt to find out whats happening. I need to ask about an infusion anyway.

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Unknown userMember

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Massage sounds good @outlander

Take it easy during your busy day @Snowie

Might try an early night here. Things are slowly improving with d's and my relationship. Haven't had nightmares for the past few nights. That's a bonus.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Is a busy day @outlander I am not sure if the sessions are helping. It is so much harder via zoom then in person. I find it really hard to talk over zoom. This covid is making everything a mess down here.

Well then hopefully you hear something from the drs can get some answers for yourself.

An early night sounds good @Former-Member Having no nightmares the last few nights is even better. I hope that continues for you.

Will say goodnight to you both, thanks for being here for me. I hope you both get some good sleep tonight.

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Unknown userMember

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Night night @Snowie I hope your apt on zoom goes ok tomorrow. I can imagine it's tricky on zoom. I'd feel the same.
I hope you sleep well and you too @outlander

💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Sorry i dropped out , just had a shower

Im glad your relationship is improving @Former-Member

@Snowie i hope tomorrows sessions go ok. Zoom would make it hard to get those same benefits. Maybe soon theyll allow face to face consults again. I hope you sleep well

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Unknown userMember

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Had shower just now too @outlander

What are you crocheting? I spent ages crocheting a blanket and it ended up in an opp shop bag. 🙁 oh well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im making another blanket for my sister @Former-Member

Sorry about your blanket. Alot of my paintings or other things people asked me to make ended up in the bin or op shop too.
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