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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am so glad to be with my forum sisters tonight @outlander @Snowie @Anastasia @Emelia8

I am grateful to do life with you all hard as it is sometimes.

Please take care

💙💜🧡💜💙

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Mostly down for me @outlander but I'm trying to focus on other things. Mixed success.😞 Keep feeling sorry for myself. Then read of others with far more reason to do so than me. Then I feel guilty and beat myself up. Its becoming a trend.

@Snowie @Eve7 @Anastasia 💕

Emelia 🌸

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It has been a good distraction being on here today @outlander

Took D to a job trial today. She goes back next week for another trial so hoping she gets a part time job out of it. Can't believe she is old enough to get a part time job however!! Makes me feel old 😢

Around for awhile if you need to chat, or can just talk about anything

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 💛💛

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hugs @Emelia8
Try nor to beat yourself up over things though i do the same thing.
Oh i forgot to reply with the idea i had for you. Have you heard of an 'emergency book'? I dont know what they are really called bit i can share what i do for it.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 glad to be with my forum sisters too on here @outlander @Emelia8

@Emelia8 I know how hard it is to not compare ourselves to others. Sorry to hear that it has been a mostly down day for you. Am around for awhile if you need to chat.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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No I havent heard of that @outlander ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Its good shes getting a job. The older you get the harder it is to get one! I know its making you feel old though. Mum says the same thing every time a milestone happens.
Im guessing she didn't get the other job she was trialing for? Or is this the same job still @Snowie

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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True @Snowie ... and thanks. 🙏💗

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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She hasn't heard about the other job @outlander which is a bit sad. I thought they would contact her regardless if she got it or not.

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