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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 Oct 2020, 5:12 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

That that great @Snowie really headachy but they said it might happen for the next few days now that ive had the iud removed.
Yesterday they also told me the test results from the ultrasound i had done. They said i have pelvic congestion syndrome so i now have enlarged blood vessels in my duodenum and now in my pelvic region as well.
So thats great :face_with_rolling_eyes:
They done another pap test just as an in case thing and done a pelvic assessments which has ruled out muscular tension etc for pain.

In 6 weeks time i need to have a chat with the other gyno to discuss when i can get a hysteroscopy D+C and a laproscopy done. She was helpful in answering some questions i had though in regards to explaining it to my mother if i need to. She says we perform just as many scopes and d+cs etc on people who havent ever been sexually active as those who have so that make it abit easier if i habe to tell her i need another procedure.

@Anastasia @Emelia8 @Sans911 @Sans911 @Snowie