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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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I hope D gets this job @Snowie I think it’s rude the other place didn’t get back to her.

Kids grow up quickly, she’ll be driving before you know it.

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Its so hard to explain things on phone 🤦‍♀️ @Emelia8
My emergency book for pop is an actual book-i just get the cheap books from big w that are like 50cents.
In the book it contains different things about pop that others might need to know if i end up in hospital or im away sort of thing.

It has his name, dob and allergies on one page, on another page/s it has thr name of his conditions and how its managed. Ie-diabetes type 2 as a heading then underneath i have written something like-managed by diet, exercise and his medications for it.
And will go through each condition for him.

On the next page/s there is a list of his support people which includes the clinic and contact number, the name of the person and the role ie Dr Name (G.P)

The next section is for medications. Here is where i list the name of the medications and the doses on their own.
Then on another page i will do each medication detail
So
One line-Name of medication. Then underneath itll say what that medication is for and also details about how to administer.
Ie
Name of medication
-treats Diabetes
-One tablet gets taken in the morning with food (breakfast)
-one tablet gets taken at night before bed (no food required)

Hope that makes sense...

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@Eve7 they do grow up quickly.

I think it is rude of them that they didn't get back to her. Even if they haven't made a decision yet, just ring her and let her know that.

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Oh thats annoying @Snowie

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Good luck to her with this job @Snowie

My boys started with part time jobs at 15 and it was good for them. S1 started in a bakery and he’d come home and practise sweeping as he’d never done it before and was asked why his mother hadn’t taught him!!

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Haha @Eve7

Hopefully D knows how to sweep the floor already.

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Oh @outlander

I love the emergency book idea, very clever!!!

Thank you, I will do this ❤️

@Snowie @Eve7 @Emelia8 @Sans911

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@outlander that emergency book idea sounds like a good idea hun.

@Anastasia @Eve7 @Emelia8 @Sans911 💕💕💕💕

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@outlander @Anastasia @Eve7 @Emelia8 @Sans911

Will say goodnight to you all, time for me to take my meds and go to sleep.

I hope you all get some sleep tonight and tomorrow is a better day for you.

Lots of love and hugs 💕💕💕💕

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Good night @Snowie 😴💖

Emelia

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