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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
the horses are a big sign but theres other signs too that are just hard. i think im going back into the true danger zone again

I am concerned to hear this, @outlander ...I so wish there was someone looking after you, not you looking after so many other people, in your real life, I mean.

I'm also thinking of you lots with your very difficult appointment tomorrow...I want to be there for you too, when you're going to the appointment and going in...you could maybe think of having us all in your pocket, on your phone in your pocket or handbag...ready to burst out and support you if needed. 💙💜

Wishing you strength tonight and tomorrow...sending many gentle hugs, dear girl 💙

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 wrote:

@NatureLover how you been doing babe?

Thanks, @Lee82 , I'm OK, just finding it a bit hard keeping up with everyone on the forums, but I think about you all when I'm not posting, and wish good things for you

Hope you're coping with the lockdown extension and the homeschooling

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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💜🤗💜

@outlander

Always here for you xox

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Things move very fast on the forum so I know how difficult it is to catch up after being away for a few days.
not very happy about the lockdown extension but at least Mr9 will be going back to school next term so that's something

@NatureLover

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thank you @Former-Member @Anastasia @NatureLover @Snowie @Lee82 @Eve7 🧡💛💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💜

How are you going tonight sweetheart?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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@outlander 🌸

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Just trying to make it through the night @Anastasia @Snowie wont be home till midnight again
Kids are being overwhelming tonight but i think its just me. Everything is annoying or irritating . I really just want to go home.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear hun @outlander

I hope for your sake the hours go quickly.

Sitting with you hun, am around if you need to chat.

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