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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Lee82Senior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 7:42 pm AEST

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@outlander I hear you hun. Things always seem so much worse and lot louder and harder and even more tiring when your MH isn't doing so well.
hope the night goes quickly for you babe and that you have enough strength to get home.
sending you lots of hugs gorgeous 💚💜💙❤️💛

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Eve7Senior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 8:02 pm AEST

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Do you want a cuppa? @outlander @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 8:06 pm AEST

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Sounds great @Eve7

@outlander 💜

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Eve7Senior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 8:13 pm AEST

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Sitting outside under the stars boiling the billy for you @Snowie @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 8:47 pm AEST

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Sounds lovely @Eve7 thank you

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 8:48 pm AEST

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Thanks @Lee82 i hope it goes quick too so far the times dragging out though.
Little kid is about to head to b3d and now 3 hrs to go to before i can go home

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Eve7Senior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 9:02 pm AEST

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I am sorry you have to stay until midnight @outlander . I was hoping you could go to sleep earlier tonight but I’ll be thinking kind thoughts for you tomorrow xox

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 9:05 pm AEST

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Thanks @Eve7 ill be up at 6 cause i need a shower and stuff before i go plus take kids to school and pick up a car to borrow for the day.

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Eve7Senior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 9:11 pm AEST

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I would come with you @outlander . It’s s shame your mother isn’t supportive as that is what you really need but I know you’re tough and will be able to see it through it’s not really something you should have to face on your own.

Always with you hun 💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Sept 2020, 9:45 pm AEST

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@Eve7 💛💛💛

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