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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 6:49 pm AEST

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Sending love back to you @outlander

💜💛💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 6:51 pm AEST

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how are you? @Eve7

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 7:03 pm AEST

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Pretty good thanks. I’ve been out with friends for lunch, bought some plants but now struggling with thoughts.

How are you?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 7:06 pm AEST

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Hi beautiful

Thank you for saying hi. How's things with you @outlander ? What did you get up to today?

Hello to @Eve7 @NatureLover @Snowie hope you are all well? X

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 7:26 pm AEST

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lunch with friends and new plants sounds nice @Eve7 but sorry about the thoughts. do you want to talk about them?

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 7:29 pm AEST

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hey @Anastasia how are you?

havent really done anything today. has been boring. one kid ws off school so watched them while mum was working

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 7:29 pm AEST

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It’s almost like I’ve convinced myself that sh is the way to end each day @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 7:30 pm AEST

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oh dear @Eve7 stay here as long as you like to help distract yourself. lets try to make it today that you can resist those urges. ill be with you all the way

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JynxModerator15 Sept 2020, 7:33 pm AEST

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Sitting with you as well @Eve7

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 7:37 pm AEST

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That was kind of you @outlander , you are good to your Mum.

Not a good day but I got through it and now I'm almost ready for bed xxx

@Eve7 I'm so sorry to hear hun. Sitting with you too my friend xxx

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