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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh @Anastasia do you want to talk about it?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Thanks @outlander youre too kind to me and I don’t deserve such support from you or @Jynx

Im sorry about your day @Anastasia and I wish I could fix things for all of us.

Ill take my meds soon and hopefully go to sleep.

i had such a lovely day and now I feel such an idiot.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 you of course deserve my and others support. you have been here for me too. that is what friends are for

im about to make a cuppa, would you like to have one with me? i also have some cupcakes too-yummy chocolate with choc buttercream

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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You are so deserving @Eve7

No it's ok thank you @outlander

Your cupcakes sound amazing, yessss please!!!

Is @NatureLover or @Snowie around to have one too?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sounds good @outlander . I have some fudge

💜

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JynxModerator

Re: not coping

Hey @Eve7.... guess what? I am the one who gets to decide who is worthy and deserving of my support! And guess what? I have decided you are 100% worthy and deserving of my support!! (Forgive me for being cheeky, it just pains me to hear when folks don't think they deserve to be heard and cared for)

Just because you're struggling now, doesn't mean your day wasn't still lovely. You aren't an idiot for having a mental health issue you can't control. I hope your meds swiftly bring you calm and sleep.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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100% agree with you @Jynx
care for a tea and cupcake too?

@Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ok @Anastasia my ears are open if you would like to talk though.
i made these cupcakes from scratch and with lactose free things. they seem to taste ok though i know i could still have a max of 2 in a day. i think theres going to be a lot of things ill have to try and make myself now

@NatureLover @Snowie @Sans911 @Bunniekins (and of course anyone too) would you like to join us too?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Clever @outlander . There lactose in so many things, my bf is lactose intolerant and struggles with so many things. I bet they taste good. I haven't got the patience to bake anymore. Kudos to you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yep @Anastasia i cant even hava biscuit with my tea anymore because they all have dairy in them. i spent a long time in the shop today reading labels just so i could get some rice crackers as a snack. im having a look around to see if there any bussinesses within australia preferably within nsw who makes like cake mixes and cookies, brownies etc that dont have dairy in the actual mix itself. every shelf mix either has dairy or may contain dairy even before adding my own milk/butter or oil into.
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