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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Sept 2020, 8:31 pm AEST

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@Former-Member

how are you going?

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Unknown userMember14 Sept 2020, 8:32 pm AEST

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not so great, but hanging in there @outlander . How about you my friend are you ok?

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Sept 2020, 8:36 pm AEST

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do you want to talk about it? @Former-Member

im okish just managing the best i can. havent been feeling well today

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Unknown userMember14 Sept 2020, 8:40 pm AEST

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I am sorry you are not feeling to well today my friend, that doesn't make your day an easy one with all you have on your plate. Not really little one, I am on a fast downwards sprial. Just thought I would see how my forum family was going, I was so lonely without you all when I was struggling last week.

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Sept 2020, 8:43 pm AEST

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i know that downward spiral @Former-Member its not all that great. i missed you too but i know you needed that time to just focus on yourself. im here if you need though

yeah the weekend kinda set off a few concussion symptoms worse then they have been for a few days but its still been mostly manageable today. my stomach has been the absolute worst though, im not even sure what it was that i had dairy in unless i just had abit to much of even the lactose free stuff.

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Unknown userMember14 Sept 2020, 8:54 pm AEST

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Where is that dam magic wand so we could wave it and solve your stomach issues at the very least. I am sorry that you are still having issues with the concussion systems, when do they think that it will ease up or go for that matter. @outlander

Pz thanks for always being ready to listen to me, it means a lot

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outlanderSenior Contributor14 Sept 2020, 8:58 pm AEST

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the concussion symptoms are getting better @Former-Member but over the weekend i worked 3 events so it took alot out of me. and then had to do horses again today too. tomorrow is planned to be chilled out so i hope itll be enough to recover more again. its been just over 3 weeks now since i first got it.

my stomach will get abit better but with a hernia and the intolerance it would ever fully be ok plus i have other womens conditions that just kinda mix in and make everything yuck. my stomach is better then a while ago though. i havent had any really severe stomach cramps or cramps that make me throw up but will always have digestive issues.

your welcome, im always happy to listen if itll help. you and others have helped me lots so its the least i can do

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 10:30 am AEST

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Dear @outlander , I am with @Former-Member in wishing for a magic wand to take your health issues away 😞

@outlander wrote:
yeah the weekend kinda set off a few concussion symptoms worse then they have been for a few days but its still been mostly manageable today. my stomach has been the absolute worst though, im not even sure what it was that i had dairy in unless i just had abit to much of even the lactose free stuff.

Am so sorry to hear that your stomach's been so bad...am really hoping today is much better in that regard...also with the concussion symptoms too.
Sending lots of 💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 6:23 pm AEST

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thank you @NatureLover 🧡🧡

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Sept 2020, 6:31 pm AEST

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@Snowie @Lee82 @Former-Member @Anastasia @Sans911 @Eve7 @NatureLover @Emelia8 @Shaz51 and everyone here too sending love to you all 💜💛

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