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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Sept 2020, 8:29 pm AEST

Re: not coping

goodnight @Snowie really hoping for an early night here too.

hoping both your sessions go ok and are helpful

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Sans911Senior Contributor13 Sept 2020, 9:00 pm AEST

Re: not coping

Struggling heaps @outlander. I know what I need to do and I have the answers but finding the references is pretty hard.

But my neighbour has come over to offer any help he can. His nerdiness is actually a bonus for me because he's very academically minded. So he's going to see if he can find some references for me. I've just told him to keep it at my level because he has a habit of getting carried away.