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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Mama bear 🐻 hug 🤗 for you @outlander

Take it easy, sleep well...this will pass.

💙💜💙

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@Eve7 💛💛
Almost home time. Then i can shower and rest in bed

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🤗hugs for you @Snowie ⛄️

Love you

💜🦋💜

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@Lee82Yay! 🙂 I have just made a cup of ginger and manderin tea and son2 has risen 😮 (I am like it is too early for you to get up ..... go back to bed!) So I made him a hot chocolate which might help. What diamond picture are you making? Can you take a pic of it ?

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I wish I could be there with you hun to help out. It's so frustrating to hear that you get no help. I just want to yell at everyone.
@outlander

that is so nice of your friend. Your very lucky to have someone like that in Your life.

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This is the whole piece.

This is the panel I am doing at the moment

@Bunniekins

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@Lee82 o0o0o0o0oooo.... Just waiting for the pics to load :). It is quite a tradition here on Sane forums to do diamond paintings. I really should try it one day. @Gazza75 does great ones.

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@outlander Hi outlander how are you doing hunny?x

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Yeah shes much older then me and has her own life but its still nice to have someone care every now and then. Im beinf careful cause i always seem to wreck everything. Just appreciating the thoughts atm.

Yeh its honestly so frustrating. Im actually entiltied to 2 hrs for pop each week as well but usually its only an hr or just under and hour and a half. On wednesday it was just long enough for them to go to maccas and get a coffee. Pop still had half a cup when they come back. My friend wanted to pop over for half hr (turned into 2 hrs) but it was abit awkward because pop would just sit at the table listening to our convo so our talk was limited quite abit. That was suppose to be my time but it was basically half hr. Doesnt help with housework (not even dishes) or anything else that might need to be helped with. I asked him and pop to help take the rubbish out last week for that council kerbside pickup but nope. My sister actually helped me out with that.

I wear down really easy. Ill feel ok for abit but even hanging out thr washing is exhausting atm. Ive only got to move around abit and its like ive had the roughest day even though ive only just go up. @Lee82

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Your almost at halfway now @Bunniekins
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