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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander have got to go to the chemist and then go put together a tv unit for my mum. That will probably take a couple of hours. Other then that it should hopefully be a quiet day. Now that I've said that anything could happen! Hehe!

Besides the doctors have you got much on hun?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@jem80 sounds like it has been a good day with some self care in there too.

Dinner sounds yummy!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sounds like youve been rather busy @jem80
can i ask what your studying?
oh i love rasin toast but i cant eat it unless i make sure theres no dairy in the breads so ill have to look into that!

oh the joys of ordering online hey. i forget they still do deliveries more of an evening. they prob have to now with all the increased demand for home deliveries.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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well your much handier then i am @Snowie i dont like flat packs at all! i dont seem to have the patience for them.

um i dont really have a busy day. i think its more wait and see with the drs atm. i have the horses though and the kids after school till midnight. im worse at night so im not sure how well im going to go,

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jem80Senior Contributor

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@outlander

I'm studying a Certificate IV in mental health and then plan to do the Certificate IV in Peer Work afterwards, then I have to complete 100 hours of work placement.

🤗😊❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh cool @jem80 good luck im sure youll do great 👍

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jem80Senior Contributor

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@outlander

Thanks for the kind words.

Its an express course for 6 months.

Still waiting for my online order. I think the driver has got too many orders like you mentioned the time has changed for delivery in the window.

I hope you take care tonight.

sending you hugs 🤗 🤗🤗🤗❤️

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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ohh I love putting together flat packs @outlander Am waiting for Son's bed for his birthday to be delivered so I can put it together.

Hopefully a few movies can keep the kids entertained hun if you have to have them, but I guess it is a waiting game to see what the doctor says first.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Gosh your BP is high @outlander I’m annoyed your Dr didn’t check you more thoroughly before.

My mh nurse came and did some First Aid, contacted pdoc who said I didn’t have to go to hospital which was a relief and I won’t be alone until Saturday.

I hope you can sleep tonight as I’m still worried about you.

xox

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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You can come to mine when i buy flatpacks then @Snowie 🤣 hate doing them.
Its abit tricker when its a weekend because the little one isnt in bed till a little later. The oldet one will be studying for the exams she has next week so i dont think she will be a bother.
I just find it hard when t he time drags out so much esp since im unusually tired and headachy.
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