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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander just coming past to hope that everything goes ok today and that you get some answers you deserve.

Take care of you sis, you are super important to us here.💕

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Thinking Of you @outlander ❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover @Snowie @Anastasia

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hey hun @outlander

How did you go today at the doctors?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im waiting on the scan results to come through @Snowie i got in straight away but it takes a few hours for results. i see dr tomorrow morning again for results.

hows your day been?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I am glad you got a scan @outlander I hope nothing is wrong and it all comes back clear but it is better to be safe and get it checked out. I am glad the Dr did something this time.

My day has been ok. Had pdoc appt. (by phone) today. He had a report from the hospital so found out why my memory has been affected so much. other then that I didn't do much. Was meant to go to the chemist but didn't even make it there today, that is a job for tomorrow.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it was weird @Snowie it was the same crappy dr i had today that i seen today as well but it was different. everything he done this time probably shouldve been done the first time. my nursing friend was there so maybe he knew he couldnt get away with another 5 minute appt because she was actually paying attention.

oh did the report say why your memory has been bad too?

yeah i didnt do much else either except kids. i even had my sister just feed the horses today cause i didnt have any client horses to do. everything i do either gives me a headache or worsens the current one so im trying to rest abit.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well whatever the reason I am glad he took you seriously this time @outlander and hopefully you get some answers tomorrow.

I am glad you have been resting today, hoping your headache doesn't get too bad tonight.

My memory has been bad because this time I had stronger ECT. I guess it makes sense. The stronger the treatment, the greater the side effects.

He answered a few of my questions about it so am feeling a little better about my memory fog.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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me too @Snowie i was basically prepared that if he said i was fine again i was heading straight to ed to get checked out. it might be something, or it could be abit of brusing or something but cant tell without at least the ct scan. ill find out tomorrow morning.


ah yeah that makes sense and im glad that the was able to answer some questions of yours too.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I was half expecting you to say you ended up at the ed, but super glad the dr stepped up and did his job! At least with the ct scan you will get some answers. Will keep you in my thoughts for tomorrow hun.

Am also thinking about our sister and hoping she checks in soon 😥

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