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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hopefully, he will listen more closely this time and make a more accurate assessment @outlander

💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i think she would take me yeah @Snowie i know she has to go to work later in the evening but im sure she would drop me off if i needed to.

i hope so @Eve7


i feel very full of anxiety tonight though.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am sorry about your anxiety @outlander and I hope you can sleep tonight. Sending another hug 🤗

💜💜💜

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hello @Anastasia how was your day?

❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Eve7 i think its just anticipation for tomorrow. its abit like what if theres nothing 'wrong' so to speak but then on the other hand what if there is.
and will he even listen this time.
hoping to be in bed soon but i think ill make another tea

care to join me? and everyone is welcome too

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’ve just brought a cuppa to bed with me @outlander

I can appreciate your mixed feelings but if he does a more thorough exam I am sure you’ll feel more satisfied. I hope he doesn’t find anything but it’s best to be sure.

Was your day ok otherwise?

💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Um i guess @Eve7 i dont really remember doing much excepy the horses and thr kids and just abit of grocery shopping. I think thays all

I know its been quite tough fir you though. Do you think youll be able to get some sleep tonight and settle?

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am looking forward to Saturday @outlander then I will feel safe until then it’s a battle.

My new meds still work at night even with a lower dose. Talk to you tomorrow.

💜💜💜

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Hello @Eve7 thank you for thinking of me. I'm ok. Concerned about my boy but that never changes, just the depth of it varies. Are you ok hun?

Hi @outlander I scrolled back to check on you. I hope you're ok hun. I wish you all the best for tomorrow, I'm glad you have someone to take you to dr. I'll be thinking of you and hope you get some answers.

Night lovelies and I hope you get some sleep tonight x

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Am just really sorry that things are so bad for you at the moment, @outlander 😞

Am hoping the doctor visit today goes much better and you get some answers. 💙💜

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