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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sounds lovely @Eve7

didnt make it to ed couldnt get anyone to drop me off and all got was moaning when asked others. have drs in morning, a nursing friend has offerred to come with me this time to

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds great @Eve7

oh @outlander I wish I was with you today, to look after you. Have been worried about you all day today.

I am glad you have drs in the morning and a nurse friend is going to go with you. Hoping you get through the night ok hun.

Lots of love and hugs 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i dont know whats happening with me @Snowie i cant make decisons or anything. im tired. just about to take some otc pain releif not the super strong stuff that makes it worse just to try and tide me over tonight. if it doesnt go well tomrrow i will take myself to ed whether i feel ok or not

im not sure how long ill be on. maybe just pop in and out cause of my headaches and vison and stuff atm.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I would drive you @outlander but I’m pleased your nurse friend will take you.

Big love 💕 big hugs 🤗 and a big cuppa tea 🍵

💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Eve7

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hun it is understandable that you are tired and in pain hun. I am super pleased that you are being checked out tomorrow.

The most important thing is you look after yourself @outlander , it doesn't matter if you just pop in and out. I will be by your side in spirit sis, sitting with you sweetheart 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeh the dr i was suppose to see only does phone cosults atm @Snowie i didnt realise it wasnt face to face. the one tomorrow is face to face so it give better opinion but its the same dr that said i was fine so i dont know.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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All you can do is go and see @outlander Hopefully having a nurse friend there with you makes the doctor take you more seriously.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i hope so too @Snowie at least she will be able to tell what he says/means/question things when i cant

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Yes she will @outlander which will be better for you. Could she take you to the ed if need be?

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