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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

To get another opinon or got to ed or leave it or i dont knoe @Snowie

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Lee82Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

I think perhaps you should call 13Health like @Eve7 suggested little one they would be able to give you a little advice on what to do.
@outlander 💚

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander hun, oh I wish I could come pick you up, wrp my arms around you and take you myself.

All I can say is go with your heart sweetie. Perhaps ring a Dr on line and see what they say. I can't really say go or not go as I'm not a doctor. But I care about you like a sister hun so would be saying to go get checked out just in case.

Even if they say you are ok, at least you got another opinion and can be sure that everything is fine.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I understand about ed, only go there with chest pain or loss of red stuff (can’t use correct words here) otherwise wait hours. Can you call 13HEALTH?

If you’re unsure it probably means you should be checked @outlander

Im sorry it’s like this for you. It’s not fair.

Mumma bear 🐻 🤗 hug

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Think 13health is qld number @Eve7 @Lee82 @Snowie
The online health direct jusy says go to ed. Anythint that involves head injuries usually says go to ed.

I honestly dont even want mum or her partner taking me. They get to involved in things and i dont be honest with them around. I said if i ger another headache again like last night (i havw to wait for the strong meds to fend off abit more first) then ill go. Mum said to ring one of them but i dont want to go for same reasons. Id rather call ambo but pop wont cope. God i haye it here

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Oh hun wish I could be there to take you myself.
@outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 13SICK is a national number hun, how about trying them.

I can understand not wanting your mum involved and finding it hard to be truthful when she is around.

Can understand anything to do with head injuries say go to the ed, you head is such an important part of your body.

Sitting next to you in spirit hun.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Eve7 @Lee82 @Snowie
Im sorry i feel like im over reacting
I wish the dr had of done a proper check rather then rushing me out the door i think id be ok id he actually checked or something

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I don't think you can overreact when it comes to your head hun. It is such an important part of your body.

It would have been good if the Dr had done a proper check. Can you ring a Dr line or even a nurse on call line?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander still sitting with you hun 💕

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