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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 7:04 pm AEST

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@Snowie 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 7:08 pm AEST

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@outlander still around for awhile if you need to chat or just sit.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 7:11 pm AEST

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Sitting would be good @Snowie
Headaches starting to come around more now.

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 7:17 pm AEST

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OH hun, let me squeeze you tight in a bear hug 💕

@outlander please be careful hun, your health is super important.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 8:13 pm AEST

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I made a phone appt with another dr tomorrow morning @Snowie too chicken to go to ed esp when people are mad at me

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 8:17 pm AEST

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I'm sorry people are mad with you @outlander that makes it even all the more difficult but you are definitely not chicken hun, you are one of the strongest people I know

I am glad you have made another appt. with a doctor hun.

Can I ask you a question?

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 8:27 pm AEST

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U can ask @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 8:30 pm AEST

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What is your favourite flower/symbol/animal? Or something that is important to you

@outlander

It may seem like a weird question 🤔

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 8:32 pm AEST

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Pink roses because they represent my nan @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 8:35 pm AEST

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Thanks hun @outlander

I am glad they remind you of your Nan, she must have been extra special.

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