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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander hoping you get some rest today sweetheart, will be around for a bit if you need some company 💕💕

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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That didn’t sound like a very thorough check to me @outlander Maybe a 2nd opinión would be wise if you’re not feeling right.

💙💜💙

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
Im considering getting another opinion @NatureLover a friend thats a retired nurse and the nurse i seen today (my regular appt with her) both are worried and picked it up even when i wasnt talking to them that something seemed off.
I literally just had to touch my chin to my shoulder and stand up that was it

It sure doesn't sound like a thorough assessment this morning, @outlander ...good luck...

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I dont know what to do 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Finding it distressing trying to know what to do

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Here with you @outlander to just sit or to listen hun 💖💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I dont know what to do @Snowie :(why is it so hrd to mkr a decision

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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If you’re not feeling better why not call ah Dr as at least you won’t have to drive anywhere. Another option is 13HEALTH.

I want to look after you @outlander It’s not right that your family doesn’t care for you.

Big bear 🐻 hug 🤗 for you.

💙💜💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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What decision are you trying to make hun? @outlander

Am here for you 💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I dont know @Eve7 i dont want to spend hrs waiting in an ed esp on my own. I canr call an ambulance or say im going to hospitsl bevause of pop.
Canr even have a dr here.
Mums answer is "dont know" someone i asked to tske me to ed said yeh sounds like your ok. A friend i seen today says i look like death and not right and need to be checked out.
Its making me so emotional over it. Im glad kids are gonr home so less noise bere at least.
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