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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember15 Aug 2020, 5:22 pm AEST

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My god, it doesn't seem to end for you my friend. You a such a strong young lady, I am sure nobody I know including me would be able to handle all that you have for going. I am in awe of you. So proud of you for doing all you can to get through the day and the next and so on. Do you know how incredible you are @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 5:31 pm AEST

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@Former-Member and thats just ome health area. I havent even spoken to one of my other specialists aboit the next step for something else 😔😯:face_with_rolling_eyes:

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Unknown userMember15 Aug 2020, 5:38 pm AEST

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How do you do it and look after your pop and not the mention the sibling sitting🤯🤭😞 again you have a strength that puts a lot of people to shame. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 5:41 pm AEST

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@Former-Member

i can only hope my hospital will cover some of the fees otherwise ill be rafting down rapids with no paddle

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:03 pm AEST

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@Former-Member wrote:
My god, it doesn't seem to end for you my friend. You a such a strong young lady, I am sure nobody I know including me would be able to handle all that you have for going. I am in awe of you. So proud of you for doing all you can to get through the day and the next and so on. Do you know how incredible you are @outlander

I second everything @Former-Member said...and also what she said about you having to deal with more than most people do in their whole lives, @outlander . You are indeed incredible.

I so wish your life was easier, too. Sitting with you

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:17 pm AEST

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thanks @NatureLover
pop has finally decided to leave me in peace for a little bit. for now at least i gave him a donut and tea.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:21 pm AEST

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Yay, you've got a bit of peace @outlander 🙂

I read that you found a milk that you like and can have, but it's expensive? I hope you can have it, you really only drink tea and aren't able to eat much, so I hope you can have your tea the way you like it...

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:25 pm AEST

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@outlander 💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:29 pm AEST

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no peace yet. he cant comprehend how to unlock the car to get the phone out 🤦‍♀️ you only have to press the central locking button and then reach out and unlock the other door @NatureLover

yeh the milk is good ive just brought another litre of it to use for now. i can have it i was just hoping to find other milks that were ok too.
i cant taste the other milk i was having but it seems a little strange that id be having such bad aftertaste that i cant get rid of at the same time as i started the new milk. so im tossed as to whether it has something to go with going to the dentist 2 days prior or if its the milk 🤷‍♀️ if going back to the milk i actually like doesnt solve it i guess ill need to speak to the dentist about what might be happening.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:33 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
no peace yet. he cant comprehend how to unlock the car to get the phone out 🤦‍♀️ you only have to press the central locking button and then reach out and unlock the other door @NatureLover

Oh no @outlander 😩

Gosh, I hope the funny taste isn't anything to do with the dentist visit 😮

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