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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:36 pm AEST

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i really hope not @NatureLover but my teeth still are abit tender so it could be. ill see how it goes and if its not ok by the end of next week ill give them a ring.
i have 8 teeth that need something done to them (thats why the dentist has highly reccomended going to hospital to have them done) so i hope the high pressured cleaning stuff hasnt made it worse. it doesnt seem as bad today as it did a few days ago so hopefully that means its going back to normal

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:41 pm AEST

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I really hope your teeth are going back to normal and the bad aftertaste disappears, so that you don't need to ring the dentist.

Is your dentist recommending you have all 8 teeth done at once? @outlander Wow...

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:46 pm AEST

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yeah @NatureLover i would actually rather them all done at once. itll cost me more if i get each individual one done anyway. 300 for the appt plus 300 for the reapir so 600 times 8 is 4800 on its own.
if i get them all done at once its 1900 plus the hospital fees which is another 1900 then the anaethetist is 500 is 4300.
if my hospital insurance covers it though i only have to pay 1900 (take away 400 because my extras cover will cover 2 of the teeth)

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:48 pm AEST

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@Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:48 pm AEST

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@Eve7 @Former-Member

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 6:58 pm AEST

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Hi @outlander @is it quiet for you now?

💙💜💙

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 7:07 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
yeah @NatureLover i would actually rather them all done at once. itll cost me more if i get each individual one done anyway.

Oh, I see, @outlander . Wow, that's a lot of money. So you have to save up to have it done in the next 12 months?

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 7:22 pm AEST

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its quiet atm @Eve7 im watching the masked singer. the pupept sounds like one of the wiggles but i cant think of his name!
i have to go out to mums in an hour for a few hrs but i dont think itll be to bad.

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 7:25 pm AEST

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Hopefully it’s good for you there as you deserve a break @outlander 💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 7:27 pm AEST

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it is alot of money its no wonder so many people go through the public system @NatureLover
i dont want to go back through the public dentists atm though because the dentist i have now is actually really good so if i can help it id rather stay with him and the hygentist that i seen.

the length of time ill need to save depends on how much itll be. If the assessment goes well with my insurnace company and they pass it then ill only need to save around 2000 instead of 5. after 12 months i can use my hospital insurance for anything but thats still 10 months away.

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