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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 3:55 pm AEST

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Oh darling girl I am sorry for all this pain and I wish you could move out too and maybe be a jillaroo for people who appreciate you.

Perhaps moving out could be a goal for the future.

Well done for all those strategies you have tried today. You WILL get on top of this.

I believe in you 💙💜💙

I need to get to the pharmacy but I’ll be back. ❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 4:00 pm AEST

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Thanks @Eve7
💛💛

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Unknown userMember15 Aug 2020, 4:01 pm AEST

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I second everything @Eve7 just said my beautiful friend. Sending you lots of love and some very gentle hugs @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 4:03 pm AEST

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thank you @Former-Member 🦖

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Unknown userMember15 Aug 2020, 4:49 pm AEST

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Just wanted you to know that I am still sitting with you little one. Just a tag away if you want to chat. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 4:57 pm AEST

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Thank you @Former-Member much appreciated ❤
I just had a snack but didn't check the ingredients and guess what-made with dairy 😞 im not very good at this

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Unknown userMember15 Aug 2020, 4:59 pm AEST

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Little one it's not that you are not good at this......

It is you are NEW to this, it is going to take some time to work it out. I am sorry it's going to cause you additional pain though. 😞 @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 5:02 pm AEST

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😔 @Former-Member
I thought id eliminated everything but missed that one. Its challanging.

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Unknown userMember15 Aug 2020, 5:07 pm AEST

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I can only imagine how challenging this is for you. I am Lactose intolerant as well but I am kind of lucky in that I can eat stuff that has it in and some icecream and cheese. But it's a world of pain if I even have two sips of a cuppa made on full cream milk or one teaspoon of yogurt. You are doing so very well with it there is bound to be little obstacles now and then. It not like you just have that to think about, you have more stuff happening to you and around you then most people would face in their entire life so don't be too hard on yourself sweetie. @outlander 🦖

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 5:12 pm AEST

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I read to everything that seems to have dairy or lactose in it 😞 i just didn't make the link the between feeling sick some things. @Former-Member i cant even have to much lactose free milk so ive had to reduce how much goes in my teas and how many teas i have in the day as well.

I also have another hospital admission coming up within the next 12 months. I have to be assesses for my hospital cover first if it gets passed then itll happen as soon as i have the gap fees etc.

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