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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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you don't have to shut it @Snowie not if talking helps. im here for you too and have no troubles talking to you. we can talk about something else though its that's more helpful.

im currently watching jurrassic park part 3. I like the first one better but this ones the only one I could find. I just ordered the 3 cheap car parts and done it on afterpay rather then paying the whole lot up front. it was only 100 for the 3 (plus wiper refills cause they are pretty worn down now) so not to bad. ive asked he mechanic how much it is for him to put the parts in for me when they arrive, hopefully wont cost a kidney

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I don't know if talking helps or not @outlander I am still afraid of what will happen if I tune into all my feelings. Sometimes it is easier to push them aside.

Glad you have ordered your parts for the car hun, hopefully it won't cost too much to change them over.

I am watching a show called outdaughtered at the moment on foxtel. Well not really watching it but it is on in the background.

Have to start thinking about dinner soon, think it might be a get your own type of night. Have enough in the freezer for them to still have something decent.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I tend to push them aside too @Snowie its not always healthy but sometimes its better option. mental health issues seriously sucks!

yeah im not really watching much either. ive been making up a a few gift hampers as a mothers day thing to try and earn a alittle extra. its abit expensive to start off with but I sell them for a little bit of profit so come out in front.
I have no idea what to do for dinner, im afraid to eat much at all. im trying to find something for pop at least.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @Appleblossom

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Hey @outlander

I got your last tag and was just reading along.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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No I know its not healthy but sometimes it is the better option. until at least until I can talk to someone about them, which isn't to next week @outlander

Will probably watch BBT tonight, not much else on tv and could do with a laugh.

Maybe just try something small hun, you need to eat something.

Mothers Day hampers sound like a good idea, especially if you can make a profit of them. I haven't even thought about mothers day yet, better start thinking about what to buy for mum and mother in law.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im watching bbt now @Snowie the one where they are working for the fbi on the gyroscope thingy and the fbi takes it from them

I wasnt thinking about mothers day to much till yesterday when i seen some business advertising their sorts of hampers.

Ive brought myself and pop a kebab for tonight. Ill try a little bit of it but i know itll last overnight for tomorrow if i dont eat much.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Its good to see you @Appleblossom 🌷

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Haha I know that episode @outlander but come to think of it I know all the episodes!! H laughs at me when I say what they are going to say before they do!

A little bit of food is better then nothing hun. Least you will have something in your stomach.

I have been listening to a relaxation you tube clip which has helped soothe me a bit.

I am listening a lot to Sarah Edelman at the moment. I find her voice soothing. Have attached a clip if you want to check her out.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TDn0dlppO8c&list=OLAK5uy_mR2Uxg0hBUk7lBrQblxeGa8j9mWP_-uiE&index=1

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Lol @Snowie i know you know all the eps. You could probably act them out by now!

Yeah something is better then nothing i suppose, ill see how i go with it.


Ill have a look at the clip too, so glad your finding something helpful as well
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