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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Apr 2020, 7:21 pm AEST

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Hows your day been? @Former-Member

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Unknown userMember23 Apr 2020, 7:26 pm AEST

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@outlander

Ummm ... well I am happy to be back on the forums again, and feeling okay enough to start posting again. So thats a plus. 😀

But there is still so much happening, and I am feeling completely swamped and overwhelmed with things. I just wish everything would stop. I need a break from myself I think.

Sherry

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Apr 2020, 7:29 pm AEST

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Im glad you feel ok to start posting again @Former-Member ive missed you

Oh yeah i get the needing a break from ourselves. Wouldnt it be nice if we could do that!
Is there anything you want to talk about? Happy to listen if thatll help

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Unknown userMember23 Apr 2020, 7:38 pm AEST

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Thanks sweetie, but no, I am not ready to talk about everything yet. Some of it is too hard right now, and I dont think anyone else needs all this either @outlander My head is full of mush! Got to sort some stuff out ... thoughts, emotions, fears. Its really hard. But it helps having people around me again, now Im back here. Thanks for saying you missed me this past month. I have missed so many of my forum family members. 💕

Sherry

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Unknown userMember23 Apr 2020, 7:43 pm AEST

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Good evening @Former-Member

It is good to see you back on the forums I am sure members will offer you lots of support. I am so sorry that you are feeling swamped and overwhelmed today and am concerned that you want everything to stop. Are you safe? Yes a break from ourselves would help at times, especially during these strange times but is a bit hard to arrange.

Take care of yourself

Whitehawk

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Apr 2020, 7:55 pm AEST

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that's ok @Former-Member
whenever your ready im here and I know many others will be there for you too

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Unknown userMember23 Apr 2020, 8:05 pm AEST

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Thanks @outlander 💜

@Former-Member I'm safe, dont worry. 😔

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Shaz51Senior Contributor23 Apr 2020, 8:18 pm AEST

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hugs my sisters @Former-Member , @outlander , @Snowie

hello and hugs @Former-Member

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Unknown userMember23 Apr 2020, 8:21 pm AEST

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Hello @Shaz51

And a moderated hug back for you!

Whitehawk

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outlanderSenior Contributor23 Apr 2020, 8:21 pm AEST

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hey @Shaz51 👋❤

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