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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 2:49 pm AEST

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Has something happened you want to talk about or is it a hug you need? 🤗 @outlander

💙💜💙

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Unknown userMember15 Aug 2020, 2:51 pm AEST

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Sitting with you my friend.
💖🦖 @outlander 🦖💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 2:56 pm AEST

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thank you @Former-Member 💚

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 3:03 pm AEST

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nothing in particular today @Eve7 everythings just so hard and piling up so much that i can barely breathe.
i have no space here. i cant watch a movie because pops being annoying and everything has to have commentary (as in he doesnt shut up and critisises everything that happens in the movie) or constantly grunts and groans. i just wanted to watch a tv show but no cant even do that.
im really struggling with all the aches and pain today doesnt mater how much pain relief i take it only seems to make it an ache and not dissappear. cant take pain releif in front of pop either because then i get 100 questions.

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Unknown userMember15 Aug 2020, 3:07 pm AEST

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I am so sorry that no pain reliever truly works for you little one. I know the pain of trying to watch something with a running commentary on very thing that is wrong with the show. My mother in law does the same thing. Wishing you had somewhere you could just really relax and have time for yourself. @outlander

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 3:12 pm AEST

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I am so sorry it’s like that for you @outlander You really deserve some space from him so you can relax.

Can you put a tv in your room?

I am sending you a big hug 🤗 and a virtual massage so you know that today you are loved very much and that you are not alone.

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 3:20 pm AEST

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thanks @Former-Member its so annoying. i have the tv show and its a cooking one atm and he wont shut up. its making me really frustrated.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 3:28 pm AEST

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i dont have space for a tv in my room sadly @Eve7
he has a tv in his room and tonnes of movies and tv shows etc but he insists on watching things.
i dont have much space here either since my sister keeps msging every 2 minutes. shes bored but my god. ive been ignoring it for the last half hour.
i have the worst headache and so tired today. i wish life was easier

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 3:41 pm AEST

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I wish life was easier for you @outlander and I wish pop would realise you have needs.

Can you put sub titles on and wear ear plugs?

I am hearing you my precious friend and I wish I could make everything better...does a hot shower help with your headaches?

Hopefully pop will sleep earlier tonight and you’ll get some peace xo

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Aug 2020, 3:47 pm AEST

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its on the lounge room tv @Eve7 so i cant really do that. sometimes i wish i could just move out of here.
ive had a hot shower, tried an ice pack on the back of my neck. have had pain relief twice and no effect.
i have the kids from 830-1030pm so not really an early night here.
my teeth have been really hurting and no taste either since i had a deep dental cleaning.

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