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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Snowie that is hard going :(. I hope it gets sorted soon for you.

Yes re son2 he does have good taste he is a funny guy our son2 he also loves Father Ted, Black Adder and Fawity Towers :). We spent hours watcing these shows when the kids were little.

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 Hey Sans911 🙂 what time is it where you are? and how was your day?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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she loved the cake, flowers, balloons, and a grazing platter I organised on behalf of us all @Snowie and all the gifts she received as well.

im sorry you had an argument with H, that mustve been difficult for you. hugs and hugs 💜

the milk hasn't helped, I had a small tea and had the same affect so I don't think its a milk thing but it doesn't taste too bad so ill use it till it runs out at least so its not wasted.

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander @Sans911 @Snowie @Former-Member son2 is going a lil bit mad here (in a good way :D) so I might make him a hot choc to calm him down and get him off to bed so I might see you all later. Take good care of yourselves. Love peaxxxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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lol @Bunniekins don't worry im in the same boat. I gotta try not to to huff and puff walking past people so it looks like im fit 😉

no, pain and other things are still the same. I seen the dr yesterday and hes ordered some urgent tests to be done. had them now just have to wait for the results. they should be in by Monday just cause labs have to be sent and received back so ive made an appointment for Tuesday morning to get them back.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Bunniekins night hun, hope you get some sleep.

@outlander it stemmed from last night when I told him a few truths about what is happening with me. Seems like everyone is annoyed at me.

I am glad your mum loved the gifts, you really are a gem of a daughter.

Shme the milk hasn't helped, I hope the test results come back quickly so you know what is happening hun.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Bunniekins

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I do know that feeling @Snowie
I wasn't going to go to mums tonight but I knew that would be the reaction if I didn't and I mentioned I wasn't hungry, couldn't eat much. so just kept my mouth shut about it.

im sorry you got that reaction though, I understand it would be hard for him esp with trying to understand mh conditions and how they affect us but I wish the reaction may have been better.

I really hope so too with the results. if they come back normal though and the new milk hasn't helped I don't really know whats next so its abit concerning.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey sis @Sans911
hows your day been? are you feeling abit better or about the same? worse?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I know he is only worried about me @outlander He just comes across as pissed off/cross sometimes. He apologises afterwards but makes me feel like :pile_of_poo: If I wasn't like I am then he wouldn't get upset in the first place. Feeling big feels again today, wish I could feel numb about now.

I hope you get some sort of results back hun, that way you might be able to get some answers.

Going to your mum's was probably the last thing you wanted but can understand that staying home probably would have made things worse.

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