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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor22 Apr 2020, 7:19 pm AEST

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Hey sis @outlander

How are you going?

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor22 Apr 2020, 7:27 pm AEST

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@outlander @Snowie @Sans911 @Kurra @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member and everyone went for two walks today. one by the bay and another was a bush walk which was lovely :D. How is everyone going tonight? I really hope you are all well and enjoying the autumn sunny weather :)xxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Apr 2020, 7:27 pm AEST

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hey sis
not a whole heap better @Snowie
I done a few special things from me and the girls for mums birthday though like deliveries and went over for dinner.
I managed one small piece of boneless chicken wing and a very small piece of cake but Im starting to feel sick again. before now I hadn't had anything for nearly 24 hrs except for sips of water.
ive brought a lactose free milk to try in my tea tonight just to see how it goes like the dr suggested.
had about 3 hours sleep though but was up again at 5 making up a few orders I had come in late last night and this morning. some didn't get picked up like planned but hopefully they'll get picked up tomorrow though.

how are you going?

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Apr 2020, 7:30 pm AEST

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that sounds so lovely @Bunniekins
you might have to take some pics to share here of these nice walks your always taking!

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SnowieSenior Contributor22 Apr 2020, 7:36 pm AEST

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Well done @Bunniekins for going on two walks. Must have been nice to get out in the fresh air.

@outlander you are a good daughter hun, hoping your mum appreciates the effort you went too.

I'm sorry you don't feel much better hun.

Hard day here too. Had an argument with H this morning (well he talked I just sat there). Guess he let some steam off as he is better tonight.

Hopefully the lactose free milk helps you.

Am around for little if you need to sit/chat sis

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor22 Apr 2020, 7:37 pm AEST

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@outlander I will ask my support worker next time as I am too busy trying to breathe in and out and not faint to take photos lol :D. As it is up hill and down dale . How are you going outlander did you get that pain sorted?

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor22 Apr 2020, 7:40 pm AEST

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@Snowie Thanks Snowie sorry you had problems with H but glad that is has been resolved? I have son2 rabbiting on atm about the Show Fat Pizza he loves it it is quoting it word for word (it is his autism they can remember such things).

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor22 Apr 2020, 7:44 pm AEST