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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 6:02 pm AEST

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@outlander am reading and catching up from this afternoon... Am so sorry to read. 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 6:11 pm AEST

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@NatureLover 💙❤

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 6:44 pm AEST

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@outlander @NatureLover

Tea cooked, kids fed, dishes done. Now time to relax!

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 6:56 pm AEST

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Sounds like a good idea to me! @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:00 pm AEST

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Have you got many plans for tomorrow @outlander ?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:01 pm AEST

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@Snowie wrote:
@outlander @NatureLover
Tea cooked, kids fed, dishes done. Now time to relax!

Yay! @Snowie

How has your day been, @outlander ? Did you set yourself 4 rows of crochet today? (If you'd rather not talk about your day, that's totally fine)

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:09 pm AEST

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mostly just the horses @Snowie and the kids in the afternoon as well. i dont really have much planned though.
what about you?

i didnt do 4 rows today, ive barely done 1. @NatureLover i might try and finish that row tonight at least itll be one row less to do. im pretty tired though now and have had dinner so dealing with really intense pain again.
how are you going? @NatureLover

@Sans911 💜💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:15 pm AEST

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So sorry about your intense pain. I don't know how you do it, @outlander . 💔

I had a good psychologist appointment today, I went in to the office as I prefer face-to-face, and we were both wearing masks, it was very odd!

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:16 pm AEST

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@Lee82 🤍🤍

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:16 pm AEST

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Not a lot planned for tomorrow @outlander

Probably just some washing and cleaning.

Hoping your pain subsides hun.

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