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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 6:04 pm AEST

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I understand hun @outlander We can talk about other things.

Sounds like you have had a quiet day.

Went out to lunch with H today, was nice to get out of the house.

Other than that it has been a quiet day.

@NatureLover 💜 How has your day been?

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 6:06 pm AEST

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i can crochet while im watching the tv @NatureLover its not a hard pattern just repetitive and boring. never really seems to end when your making a square this size.

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 6:09 pm AEST

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its been quiet and boring and long @Snowie the weeks going to start tomorrow though and itll be filled with whatever happens so guess cant really complain about having a boring day.
going out for lunch with H sounds nice though. where are the kids? mustve been nice to just go out with you and H

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 6:24 pm AEST

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The kids were at home @outlander They are old enough to stay at home for awhile by themselves, plus we were not that far from home and they both have mobiles if they need us.

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 6:25 pm AEST

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sounds good @Snowie good to spend some time just u and H

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 6:25 pm AEST

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@Snowie wrote:
@NatureLover 💜 How has your day been?

Thanks @Snowie , it's been a quiet day, I like quiet days, just a few walks in the sun and some relaxing... I'm glad you were able to get out of the house for lunch 🙂

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Lee82Senior Contributor27 July 2020, 12:38 pm AEST

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@outlander Just letting you know that I am thinking of you hun.
Hi @NatureLover how have you been hun?

hello to everyone else too hoping your Monday is treating you well @Snowie @Eve7 @Sans911 @Zoe7 @Shaz51

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor27 July 2020, 12:42 pm AEST

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@Lee82 wrote:
Hi @NatureLover how have you been hun?

Been doing much better since my inspection, I much prefer a slower pace - thanks. How are you doing today? @Lee82

Thinking of you too @outlander and hoping that your day is not too painful...

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Lee82Senior Contributor27 July 2020, 1:02 pm AEST

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I'm so glad to hear that @NatureLover

I am struggling a little hun. It's been a tough weekend and today is just another s**t day!

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor27 July 2020, 1:06 pm AEST

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Thanks, @Lee82 🙂

I'm sorry that things don't seem to be improving for you... 😣 When will it be 6 weeks since you started the meds?

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