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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 11:00 pm AEST

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Lol @Eve7 my sisters probably seen as much as i have. One of our faves is actually Mr Ed.

Might be time for bed for you huh. Ill prob just play on my phone for a while. Its 4 degrees here but im too hot so might have a quick shower to cool off abit first.

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Eve7Senior Contributor25 July 2020, 11:09 pm AEST

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Good night. I like Mr Ed too but National Velvet was my favourite.

Its 17 here but raining

Sleep well lovely.

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 11:10 pm AEST

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Yep seen that plus international velvet @Eve7

Hope you sleep well 💛💛

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 9:21 am AEST

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@outlander wrote:
Naturelover your welcome too but i wont tag you as i know youve logged off but just in case your still up

Thank you anyway @outlander

I was worried when you mentioned possibly leaving any possible surgery (if it's needed) till the long 6-week school holidays...I would think that you need urgent attention for your stomach problems and pain and nausea, you can't go on like this. 😞 I was also thinking, schools have before-school and after-school programmes, don't they? Maybe that might be a possibility...

I hope today is a restful day doing crochet or whatever you like...can you catch up on sleep during the daytime at all? (I know some people can't sleep in the day)

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 9:56 am AEST

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@outlander I hope I didn't upset you last night with my words, that wasn't my intention. I know it is easy for me to sit here and say these things, but I also know that you are the one living it and going through it. I wish there was some way I could help you, comfort you, support you and be by your side to help you through all this.

Please know that you are valued by me (and others) on here. That you are a strong and courageous young woman that has so many pressures in your life amongst trying to deal with your physical and mental health. That you are doing the very best you can with what you have through very difficult circumstances. Take care today hun and I hope there is some light in your day.

I love you sis 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 2:32 pm AEST

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@Snowie @NatureLover

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 5:50 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie no you havent upset me. im just not really up for talking about myself or anything today though.

thanks @NatureLover was in bed for awhile but get to fidgetty even watching a movie so didnt last longer then 9 but havent done anything except watch tv and do the blanket. i want to hurry up and finish it though cause im sick of doing it now.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 5:52 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
thanks @NatureLover was in bed for awhile but get to fidgetty even watching a movie so didnt last longer then 9 but havent done anything except watch tv and do the blanket. i want to hurry up and finish it though cause im sick of doing it now.

OK, @outlander ...is the blanket for someone? Or for you? Or is it maybe a distraction for you to be making it...

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 5:54 pm AEST

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blankets for my aunt she wanted it for winter but ive been to slow at making it @NatureLover ive lost the motivation and even the like to crochet anymore so has been a struggle from the start. probably halfway through now cause she wants this giant blanket to wrap around herself when it gets cold.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor26 July 2020, 6:03 pm AEST

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Oh gosh, @outlander , another thing you are doing for someone else...wow. It's a shame you still have half to go. Is crochet something you can do while doing something else at the same time, like watching a movie, or do you have to concentrate hard on it? You said you were watching TV too...

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