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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 1:16 pm AEST

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How are you going @Snowie @NatureLover

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 1:20 pm AEST

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I'm feeling better now that Lee71 has checked in safely. Other than that I've got a quiet day with some walks in the pale sun...better than no sun 🙂

@outlander how are your pain levels today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 1:22 pm AEST

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Some walks and a quiet day sound good @NatureLover

Ive finished the washing and most should be dry in another hr but ill prob be at the horses then so i can get them done before the rain comes too

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 1:26 pm AEST

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OK. I hope you can get the horses done before it rains @outlander

I'm glad you don't have the kids today 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 1:31 pm AEST

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Me too @NatureLover i have the weekend off from then.
I could use the rest atm well i think anyway according to everyone else i dont do anything

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 1:49 pm AEST

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The whole weekend off from the kids - I'm so glad 🙂

Your family would notice pretty darn quick if you suddenly couldn't do all that you do for them!!

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 5:22 pm AEST

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@NatureLover

finally finished all the horses just in time for the rain, all the clothes in just in time too

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 5:38 pm AEST

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Glad you got everything done @outlander

Now time to rest and have some "me" time

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 5:51 pm AEST

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ive ordered dinner so i dont have to cook tonight @Snowie and just put criminal minds on. ive started buying the seasons again so ive got season 1 and 2 for now to watch.

my stomachs hurting quite abit so just resting for now. feels like someones gone in and grabbed and is squishing it very tightly 🥴

hows your day been?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor25 July 2020, 5:55 pm AEST

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Well done on getting the horses an the clothes done before the rain came 🙂

That's not good your stomach's bad tonight @outlander

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