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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Good night @Snowie Stay safe, wash your hands etc etc

Senfing love

💜🦋❄️💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 im not sure if your still up but wanted to come in and say goodnight to you and Mr A too 💚💜💙

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Thinking of you so much, @outlander ...wishing for less pain today, more food down successfully, and some peace and hope if possible. 💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover i hope you slept well and todays a good one for you.

todays rather quiet except the horses abit later this arvo so going to get a load or 2 of washing done before the rain comes for the next few days (starting late this arvo/tonight) and watching criminal minds now. was a really rough night and not feeling to well this morning so im quite happy to chill out at home as much as possible before the week gets busy again

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Oh gosh, @outlander , if you say it was a really rough night, it must have been extremely bad, as all your nights are 'really rough" 😞

I'm glad you have a bit of a quieter day, especially as you're feeling awful.

I'm here if you want to chat...

Thanks for your good wishes, and also for sitting with Lee71 last night, when you are in the same boat as her...it just shows what a beautiful person you are. 💙 I am also really glad to see you've taken a bit of a step back from your CG duties for the moment.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah @NatureLover i slept in abit though, just took all night to actually get to sleep.
im looking forward to the gastroenterologist appt to see what treatments are avaliable. i cant even sleep in some positions otherwise it flares it up but i cant always sleep on my left side. its fatiguing.

i know what its like struggling every minute of every day and how alone you can feel. i like helping others feel less alone.
Its strange and hard for me not to be doing as much CGing but im just doing as much as i can for now. weve had lots of new members that need welcoming so im quite happy to be doing that as well for now

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander sorry to hear it has been a rough night hun. I hope today goes a little smoother for you sweetie. Will be around for a bit now 💜💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
yeah @NatureLover i slept in abit though, just took all night to actually get to sleep. ...
i cant even sleep in some positions otherwise it flares it up but i cant always sleep on my left side. its fatiguing.

Oh gosh 😞 Sleep makes such a difference, I am also looking forward to your gastroenterologist appointment!

@outlander wrote:
i know what its like struggling every minute of every day and how alone you can feel. i like helping others feel less alone.

💔 💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@NatureLover
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