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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:49 pm AEST

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Hopefully you can get some "me" time in there hun @outlander

I know particularly the last few days have been hard for you sweetie and is still hard.

I have to take the dog to the hairdressers tomorrow! I love when she comes back, she smells so good 😉

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Sans911Senior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:52 pm AEST

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Just the op shop in the afternoon @outlander. My manager is also on as well which is good. Less stress on me.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:57 pm AEST

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Lol well at least she smells good! @Snowie

Sounds like an easy going day @Sans911 maybe youll help someone with wardrobe choices again. You seem pretty good with that

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 9:04 pm AEST

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Hey @Eve7 your welcome to join us for a tea and bikie too if you like 💛

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Sans911Senior Contributor24 July 2020, 9:08 pm AEST

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I would just be happy if I have a cruisy day @outlander with no one moaning about our prices or asking for ridiculous discounts. And no one trying to steal things.

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Eve7Senior Contributor24 July 2020, 9:12 pm AEST

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Thankyou @outlander

I’ll just grab a cuppa and a tim tam

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 9:15 pm AEST

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Oh really? Do people do that even in a charity shop!? I havent been op shopping in a while. Sometimes mum and the girls and me will spend a day exploring some of the op shops with a good budget so we can support a few shops @Sans911
People are always trying to steal so that doesnt surprise me

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 9:15 pm AEST

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Of course @Eve7 💛

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 9:19 pm AEST

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@Eve7 @outlander @Sans911

Have loved being with you tonight but time for me to go to bed. I hope you all get some sleep tonight and tomorrow has some sunshine in it for you. You will all be in my thoughts.

Goodnight my sisters 💜💛💚

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 9:25 pm AEST

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Goodnight @Snowie sleep well ❤

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