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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 7:42 pm AEST

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How are you? Have you heard from the hospital @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 7:58 pm AEST

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Another late night for you hun @outlander

I am going okish. I haven't heard from the hospital yet. Might give them a call tomorrow.

How arre you going tonight?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:05 pm AEST

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They prob wont tell you much if its a weekend ? @Snowie im glad your going okish though. Did you get up to much?

@Sans911 👋

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:10 pm AEST

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I have some family birthdays coming up so went shopping for them. Need to go again at some stage as didn't finish them @outlander but made a good dent.

I'll come sit with you and @Sans911 Seems like it has been awhile since we have been on here together. Love catching up with my sisters💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:17 pm AEST

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You could always order onlinr and have it delivered to save you going out? @Snowie

Sitting with you and @Sans911 sounds good to me too ☕

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:23 pm AEST

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I have aleady ordered some online @outlander Just trying to finish them of. I can still go shopping as I live out of the lockdown area.

I will bring the choc biscuits, I brought some today! 😉

@Sans911

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:27 pm AEST

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At least your not in lockdown in that area @Snowie

I made cupcakes earlier too.

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SnowieSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:32 pm AEST

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it is good @outlander makes life a little easier but still wearing a mask wherever I go.

ohh yummy cupcakes. I plan to make banana bread tomorrow. Been waiting for the bananas to get really ripe!

Have you got any plans for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:37 pm AEST

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Banana bread sounds good too. Better when its fresh and still hot. @Snowie

I have horses in arvo-need to rug up before we have alot of rain sunday and monday and need to take mum to pick her car up from mechanic but other than that nothing planned.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 8:48 pm AEST

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@Sans911 havw you got much on tomorrow

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