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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 11:22 am AEST

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That's exactly what we're here for! @outlander

(Although I understand if you're out of words)

Sending a gentle hug 💚

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 11:30 am AEST

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I cant drag anyone else down @NatureLover im sorry i know my family situations arw tricky for others here to talk about too

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 11:34 am AEST

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No need to be sorry, @outlander . You're not dragging me down at all. If I do ever find it too hard, I'll step away for a bit. But I haven't yet.

I would much rather know how you're doing and what you're going through than not know.

(Although I do recognise that you know the other members and what they can cope with when hearing about your family situation)

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 11:42 am AEST

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Thanks @NatureLover
Its just really hard.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 11:44 am AEST

Re: not coping

@outlander wrote:
Its just really hard.

Yes, I'm so sorry 😞 @outlander

If you could do anything, what would it be?

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 11:58 am AEST

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I dont know @NatureLover i cant answer that

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 12:00 pm AEST

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OK, I'm sorry 😞 @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 12:03 pm AEST

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Its not you at all and no need to apologise @NatureLover i cant get out of the darkness so all my thoughts arent going much further then sh or si.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 12:05 pm AEST

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I'm so sorry to hear, @outlander 😞

Wishing for some light for you and some hope.

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 July 2020, 12:07 pm AEST

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Thanks @NatureLover your loveley ❤

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