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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember21 July 2020, 7:33 pm AEST

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I can totally relate to that as well my friend. But what would you tell me??? I really struggled yesterday as you saw and there where just a few of you here that made me stay. So I can't be to hard with uyou for thinking this way. Please know that you where one of my reasons not to leave this world yesterday. I hope you can find a reason too little one. The world would be a sadder place without your love, compassion, your friendship and your guiding light. I will sit you for a while if you like. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 7:49 pm AEST

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it would be nice if you guys were really here 😞 @NatureLover @Lee82 @Former-Member

sitting is good thank you

im sorry for having a meltdown. lifes just so hard.

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Lee82Senior Contributor21 July 2020, 8:08 pm AEST

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Please don't apologise @outlander it's all ok. We all understand what it can be like. Sitting with you. I am just about to make myself a cuppa. You want one?
@Former-Member you want one?

sweet dreams @NatureLover hope you get a restful sleep

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 8:09 pm AEST

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a cuppa would be lovely thank you @Lee82
i can offer some biscuits too if youd like any

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Lee82Senior Contributor21 July 2020, 8:12 pm AEST

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That would be great! Thanks @outlander i am loving the salted caramel and macadamia nut cookies from Coles at the moment or just the old school choc chip. 😋😋

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 8:17 pm AEST

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i love chocolate chip cookies @Lee82 there is a bakery nearby who makes really good cookies so we buy a few every now and then. once you start eating them you really cant stop they are really moreish.

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Lee82Senior Contributor21 July 2020, 8:20 pm AEST

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Yum.... would love to try one of those. 🍪🍪

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 8:21 pm AEST

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id love to steal their recipie @Lee82 then i can make as many as i want and i can share them with you guys 😏

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 8:26 pm AEST

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i need to have a shower soon @Lee82 im abit worried about how much pain its going to cause though esp with open blisters and wound that was cleaned out last night.

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Lee82Senior Contributor21 July 2020, 8:26 pm AEST

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My Mr13 makes the yummiest melting moments. I don't know how he does it although it does take him hours to make...lol perhaps that's the trick.

i need to get him to make them more often.
@outlander

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